To be a woman is to have a body that is not my own.
A possession
A temptation
My mind is a threat.
A woman's mind has the power to take back her freedom.
And what is a man? What is he without women? What is he, if he does not have a woman to procreate with?
To be with a woman is to be with Gaia herself. And man is killing Gaia.
My heart is a weapon.
A woman's heart has the ability to heal herself and others.
Who else will care for us without women?
But if a man could see
His place is not to be a woman's hero. She is her own.
She does not need to be hidden, but you can be her shield if she lets you.
It isn't to be her voice, but to fight for her voice to be heard.
It is to step out of the way and let her shine. It is to receive all her light and offer replenishment.
It is to offer strength, but not by force.
Let her waters flow freely and be in awe of the power of her flowing river. Receive the waves of glorious love. Only when the floodgates are let free will man see the beauty he had trapped behind the walls.
And to the men who are fearful of tearing down the damn: Know the strength behind that concrete will slowly erode and chip away, and the rage will destroy anything keeping her restrained.
Be the man that stops the damn from being erected. Fight to have the walls the restrain her released. And above everything: Let HER Be!
Conscientious Resister
Sunday, February 12, 2017
Sunday, January 29, 2017
Political Experiment
As I write this, visa holders and immigrants from Iraq
seeking asylum in our country are being held at the JFK airport. A Mosque is
burning in Texas. This bleeding heart liberal finds herself getting angry and
wanting to lash out to say, “See, this is why we couldn’t just ‘Give him a
chance’! You ignorant racist assholes who loudly proclaim their religious views
are doing exactly what Jesus’ taught against”.
I could, and sometimes do, use Facebook to express my anger
and shout different versions of “I told you so!”. But what am I actually
accomplishing? I have called my representatives, and hope that makes a
difference, but with the Republicans controlling the house and senate, there
are bound to be many things that will change that I am not going to agree are
the best for our country, humanity, or the earth.
Anxiety takes over my thoughts. Each day feels a little
scarier.
All this time I keep asking myself, what really makes a
difference? What can I really do that I will see first-hand to change my world,
and help me go through each day with more love than anger and fear?
So, I am going to start an experiment. While it may be
quixotic, I want to see what will happen if, when interacting with those
viewpoints that are different than mine, I ONLY ask questions in response.
Sincere questions that honestly try to understand. Why do people feel we need
to halt immigration? What is the deal with the wall and why aren’t there other
options?
I go back and forth with the idea that Trump is just the
lightening rod that uncovered the sentiments people already have, to thinking
that the lightening rod has created fear that would otherwise not be
electrified. However, does it really matter? What matters is how I get through
holidays with family. What matters is feeling that I live in an inclusive
community. What matters is having conversations with my neighbors, knowing
them. Knowing the men and women that sleep outside a few blocks away. What also
matters is that I am acting in a way that feels authentic to me and true to my
values. I cannot watch families be torn apart because of arbitrary lines that
differentiate our nationality. I cannot wait it out while women are forced to
maintain a pregnancy that could be dangerous or unwanted, or try another unsafe
route to end it. I won’t stop making calls, donating time and money, marching
and resisting.
And, I won’t alienate my friends and family by using words
like racist, misogynist, ignorant to describe people that voted for Trump. Meanwhile
my anger and impatience speak to me and tell me that these people are these
things. To let it go without being called out only feeds the wrongdoing.
Here lies the dilemma. When is it appropriate for racism and
discrimination to be called out, and when is it appropriate to inquire to find
out what is really behind the rhetoric? My gut may tell me, but only if I slow
down enough to listen to it.
The three year old boy, innocently intermixed in a war that
caused his death, popped back up on my Facebook feed. He is tragically lying on
the beach, taking no further breaths. No more laughter. I look at my daughter
and I shudder, thinking how easily she could drown if we had to escape by a
crowded boat. Deciding as a parent to stay and risk bombs or risk the unknown
and a treacherous journey to where you have no idea if you will be welcomed
wherever you land.
My first thought is, how can YOU (read: other than me) let
this happen? How can you (insert judgmental comment) allow this to happen?
Innocent children. HUMAN LIFE.
Then I stop. What have I done or not done to create this?
Did I call my senator when the refugee crisis in Syria was happening? I may
have shared some Facebook posts and put my name on some petitions, but what did
I really DO? My judgment is palpable. It is as if I am embracing it as the life
raft that could have saved the boy.
My first question in this experiment could be, “How do you
allow the loss of innocent life due to war like with this boy?” The judgy
liberal in me really wants to ask this question. What would it bring in
response? Am I really asking them, or am I asking myself?
To be honest, I am scared to ask the questions that would
solicit sincere answers. I am scared people might have a rational response that
I cannot argue with, even if I remain in disagreement. I am also scared the
response may indeed uncover racial or religious bias or sexism. The fragile
respect I hold for my friends and family that voted for Tump is like the Brave
Man’s Bridge in China. Made of transparent glass, the transparency of it is
what is the most frightening. You can see straight down almost 600 ft and a
tiny crack could send you tumbling to a certain death. Yet the bridge is sound
engineering. The clear view allows an exhilarating and extremely frightening
walk to the other side.
We have been traveling on concrete bridges. In Washington,
we know our bridges are deteriorating, yet we drive on them every day, less
fearful than if we were to walk on the solid glass bridge in China. In
politics, we have been going on a path of ignorant deterioration. Moving
farther and farther apart from our neighbors. There is so much tension, perhaps
making issues more extreme than what deep down they really are if we actually
listened to each other.
So today, I challenge myself to ask and listen. I will still
show up to rallies. I will still call and write my representatives. And when
someone from the other side opposes what I am doing, I will step on a glass
bridge and ask them why they oppose me. I will listen to the response and do my
best to hear with an open heart their concerns and fears. If nothing else,
maybe we can meet in the middle.
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